
You do not need to be tough to begin, you just need a clear plan and a place that teaches fundamentals the right way.
Starting Brazilian Jiu Jitsu can feel like stepping into a new language: grips, positions, pressure, and a lot of unfamiliar movement. That is normal. What matters is finding a beginner-friendly path where you can learn safely, understand the why behind techniques, and build confidence without feeling rushed.
In our Cottonwood gym, we see beginners come in with all kinds of goals. Some want a better workout than the same old treadmill loop. Some want practical self-defense. Some want a skill that challenges the mind as much as the body. Brazilian Jiu Jitsu checks those boxes, and it does it in a way that rewards patience and consistency.
This guide lays out exactly how to start Brazilian Jiu Jitsu in Cottonwood, what to expect in your first class, what you actually need to bring, and how to stay consistent long enough to feel real progress.
Step 1: Know what Brazilian Jiu Jitsu really is (and what it is not)
Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is a grappling-based martial art built around controlling an opponent through leverage, positioning, and timing. You will learn how to escape bad spots, maintain good spots, and apply submissions when the opportunity is there. That sounds intense, but beginner training is structured, coached, and surprisingly technical.
A quick reality check helps you start smoothly:
• It is not a strength contest, even though strength can help. We teach you to use frames, angles, and body positioning so you are not relying on muscle.
• It is not “fight club.” We prioritize controlled training and defensively responsible decision-making, especially early on.
• It is not something you must “already be in shape” for. Getting in shape is one of the outcomes, not a prerequisite.
If you want Brazilian Jiu Jitsu in Cottonwood that is taught with a fundamentals-first approach, your best first move is to come in ready to learn, not ready to prove anything.
Step 2: Decide your starting path: adult fundamentals or youth training
Before you book your first class, it helps to choose the track that matches your household and schedule.
Adult beginner training: fundamentals that make everything else easier
Adults usually do best when the first phase is simple and repeatable. We focus on foundational movements and defensively sound positioning so you can protect yourself while you learn to attack responsibly.
In beginner classes, you will typically work on:
• Distance control and posture, because that is where safety and effectiveness start
• Basic escapes from common positions, so you do not feel stuck underneath
• Guard concepts, including how to use your legs and hips as tools
• High-percentage submissions with clear setup details
• Calm, controlled drilling that builds coordination and confidence
The goal is not to collect a hundred techniques. The goal is to build a base that makes future learning faster.
Kids programs: structure, confidence, and real skill
Families often ask about youth Brazilian Jiu Jitsu in Cottonwood because they want something more meaningful than random activity time. Our youth program is structured and engaging, with an emphasis on listening skills, body awareness, and confidence that does not spill into ego.
Kids learn how to:
• Move safely with partners
• Practice boundaries and control
• Handle pressure and problem-solve
• Build steady confidence that shows up at school and at home
You will usually notice the “little things” first: better focus, more patience, and a calmer response to frustration.
Step 3: Take the free first class and show up early
We offer a free first class because you should be able to feel the environment before committing. If you are nervous, that is fine. Most beginners are. Showing up a bit early helps you settle in, meet us, and get a quick orientation without feeling like you are walking into the middle of something.
Here is the easiest way to approach day one:
1. Check the class schedule page and choose a beginner-friendly time that you can repeat weekly.
2. Arrive 10 to 15 minutes early so we can get you checked in and answer questions.
3. Tell us your goals and any injuries or limitations so we can coach you appropriately.
4. Focus on learning one or two concepts well, not “winning” anything.
5. Leave with a simple plan for your next two weeks, because consistency matters more than intensity.
Your first class should feel challenging, but it should also feel guided. You should leave thinking, “Okay, that was doable,” even if you are tired.
Step 4: Bring the right gear (and keep it simple)
You do not need a shopping spree to start Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Clean, basic training gear is enough. If you already own athletic clothes, you are probably close.
What to wear for your first class
For no-gi style training, think fitted athletic wear that will not snag:
• A rashguard or snug athletic shirt that stays in place
• Athletic shorts without pockets or zippers
• Compression shorts or leggings under shorts for comfort and coverage
• Flip-flops or slides for walking off the mat (bare feet only on the mat)
For gi classes, you will eventually want a gi that fits well, but you can start by asking us what we recommend so you do not buy the wrong size.
A few small details that make training better
This is the part people forget, but it matters:
• Trim nails before class. Grappling plus long nails is a bad combo.
• Remove jewelry. Rings and necklaces do not belong on the mat.
• Bring water. You will sweat more than you expect.
• Show up clean, with a clean uniform. Good training partners appreciate it.
These basics help keep training safe, comfortable, and respectful.
Step 5: Learn what “safe training” actually looks like
A big reason people quit early is not the difficulty, it is uncertainty. You do not know what intensity is “normal,” and you do not know how to protect your body while learning. We take safety seriously because it is what keeps you training for months and years, not just a few weeks.
Safe training is built on a few habits:
• Tap early and often while learning. Tapping is not losing, it is how you train tomorrow.
• Move with control, especially in scrambles. Speed comes after technique.
• Choose the right intensity for your experience level. You can train hard without going wild.
• Ask questions. If you do not understand why something works, we will explain it.
Our instruction emphasizes precise movement and defensively responsible positioning, which means you learn how to stay protected while you build skills. That approach is not just “nice,” it is what makes long-term progress possible.
Step 6: Commit to a realistic schedule (two to three days per week)
If you want noticeable improvement, you need a rhythm you can sustain. We usually recommend starting with two or three classes per week. More is not always better if it turns into burnout or sore joints that keep you home.
A sustainable beginner schedule might look like:
• Two classes per week for the first month, focused on fundamentals and repetition
• Add a third class when your body feels adapted and you understand basic positions
• Keep at least one full rest day between hard training sessions at first
You will improve faster than you think if you are consistent. Many students notice early gains in balance, coordination, and confidence within the first couple of weeks, mostly because the learning curve is steep in a good way.
Step 7: Know what progress looks like in the first 30 days
Progress in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is not always flashy. Sometimes it is just less panic in bad positions. Sometimes it is remembering to breathe. That is real progress.
Here is what we like beginners to aim for in month one:
• You can name common positions and recognize where you are
• You understand basic concepts like posture, frames, and hip movement
• You have one or two reliable escapes you can attempt calmly
• You can drill with control and keep yourself and partners safe
• You feel comfortable walking into class and getting started without hesitation
If you hit those benchmarks, you are building a foundation that will carry you a long way.
Step 8: Add Muay Thai when you want variety and balance
One advantage of training in a gym that offers both grappling and striking is balance. Brazilian Jiu Jitsu builds control, timing, and problem-solving under pressure. Muay Thai builds footwork, coordination, conditioning, and a different kind of confidence.
If your goal is well-rounded skill and fitness, cross-training can help you:
• Avoid boredom by rotating training styles
• Improve conditioning without repetitive cardio routines
• Build body awareness through different movement patterns
• Develop a broader self-defense skill set
You do not have to do everything at once. Some people start with Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and add striking later. Others like one grappling day and one striking day each week. We will help you choose a plan that makes sense.
Step 9: Use our instructors and structure to shorten the learning curve
Brazilian Jiu Jitsu can feel endless, which is part of what makes it worth doing. Still, beginners need structure. Our head instructor, Clay Wimer, brings black belt-level coaching with an MMA background and a focus on precise, defensively responsible movement. Our Muay Thai instructor, James Sharkey, brings more than 16 years of experience across boxing, Muay Thai, and no-gi training, and he coaches with clarity that helps beginners relax and learn.
What that means for you is simple: you are not guessing your way through class. You are building skills on purpose. When you understand why a technique works, you remember it, and you can actually apply it when things get messy.
Step 10: Make your first month easy by removing common friction
Most people do not quit because training is “too hard.” They quit because life gets busy and class starts feeling complicated. A few small systems make a big difference:
• Put your training days on your calendar like appointments
• Pack your gear the night before so you do not talk yourself out of going
• Aim to be five minutes early, not rushing in stressed
• Track one simple goal each week, like “improve my hip escape”
• Give yourself permission to be new, because everyone starts there
If you want Brazilian Jiu Jitsu in Cottonwood to become a long-term practice, the win is not perfection. The win is showing up.
Take the Next Step
If you are ready to start in a clean, welcoming environment with structured coaching, Verde Valley Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and Muay Thai is here in Cottonwood to guide you from your first class through your first real breakthroughs. We keep the focus on fundamentals, safety, and steady progress, so you can build skill without feeling overwhelmed.
Whether you are looking for adult training, youth Brazilian Jiu Jitsu in Cottonwood, or a balanced routine that includes striking, we will help you choose a path you can actually stick with and enjoy at Verde Valley Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and Muay Thai.
No experience is needed to begin. Join a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu class at Verde Valley Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and Muay Thai today.


